As I have a student who will be graduating from high school this spring, I am interested in knowing the thoughts of others regarding the direction students will be headed after their graduation in 2020.
My soon to be graduate is strong in mathematics and art, obviously using both sides of his brain. His propensity for mathematics that started in pre-school in an attempt to “catch up” with his two older brothers, waned over the years. He was still going strong in middle school with an obvious interest in excelling by participation all three years in Math Counts Competitions (math for fun – really!), creating origami models, and quiz bowl. But, by the time high school and pre-calculus as a ninth-grader rolled around, his interest in the world of math had relaxed.
By that time, the origami had given way to intricate graphite and colored pencil drawings of people and sometimes, in the early days, animals. Mathematics was beginning to take a second place to the world of art, and we allowed it to happen.
Could our son find a future job as an actuary, accountant, or even a math teacher more easily than as an artist in the future? Yes, almost certainly. At the outset of his high school career, we cautioned him to think carefully about his future path. “Remember,” we said, “you have to find employment when you are done with college.” So, we were inadvertently telling him to go a STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math) route.
But, as the last few years progressed, he’s produced more and more incredible art. Drawing led to painting, and now, more drawings. Of course, I’m biased here; I am his mother, after all. But, my opinion has been reinforced by others in the community and even the world beyond our town. It’s gotten to the point that its hard to deny his talent and ability. Yes, he’s still got mathematical talent. But, the difference is that he works daily (for hours) at increasing his artistic skills and enjoys spending his time that way, too!
This is called passion!! His passion is exhibited by his intense commitment to pursuing his art on a daily basis. He is working towards his dream of being an artist. It’s evident he works hard, he has talent, and he is committed to becoming better and better at his craft. As his parents, my husband and I really have no choice but to support his dream. It is the best we can do; it is what we need to do! Others, in our community, have expressed interest in his art as well. With winning the Congressional Art Contest for our representative’s district last May, a publically painted local mural, and several commissioned works, along with promotion through the help of Instagram and TikTok platforms, he is making a name for himself, already. It’s scary and exciting all at the same time!
Yes, he’ll still have to find employment after college. But, we’ve come to the realization that while he could be great at anything he chooses, he has a passion for creating, expressing, and sharing his art. I do not think it is arguable that kids today are under a lot of pressure. No doubt having the ability to pursue one’s passion in this type of world is a gift. Probably, one of the greatest gifts of all.
Today is Slice of Life: Tuesday. This is a forum hosted by TwoWritingTeachers.org blog what encourages a willing community of educators and writer’s to share their passion for the written word. I have participated in this group since March of 2017. Thank you for offering a supportive, encouraging atmosphere.
The Apples in My Orchard 
WOW! As I started reading, I wanted to reference William Carlos Williams who earned a living as a doctor but wrote poetry at night or in his off hours. Seeing your sons’s work, I am amazed and hoping he figures out a way to turn this into a career.
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Thank you so much. My husband and I have always had creative hobbies, so all of our boys have been exposed to the type of thing William Carlos Williams did. My husband is, in fact, a physician who makes furniture! I hope our son can figure out a way to make a career out of his art. He’s made a good start, that’s for sure! Thanks for stopping by!
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I have so many thoughts here. First, congratulations on your son’s tremendous accomplishment! Next, as I look at your son’s beautiful work I am reminded that we need more beauty in our world. Your son brings beauty to this world with his art and passion for images. Also, his math informs his art. And likewise, his art informs his math skill. The two will work hand in hand as his talent. I also have a son who is passionate about an artistic field that I worry about his ability to earn a living. He dropped college last year to study music production. He loves it! And he is pursuing his dream. He’s got to figure all this life stuff out on his own. I can only love him and support him from the sidelines. He’s got to figure out how to make this passion earn him a living. I think he will be able to do it. But, for my part , I had to let go of my expectations for him. That was bogging our relationship down, like a concrete block. He will soar now that I’ve cut that line free. Enjoy and revel in these days with your boy. Celebrate these amazing talents the Lord has given. Savor.
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Angelina, thanks for your kind words and sharing your wisdom. I can relate to what you wrote in many ways. Yes, I agree, we place unnecessary expectations on our children. They do figure it out eventually and we cannto do that for them. Our middle son took this year off from college to “figure it out.” He did fine but was not really being true to himself. We see that evolution happening now and are thankful for it. Again, thank you! I wish you and your son success!
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